tH3 R3lAt!0nShip Of A TrAñsG3nDeR-GEi - The observation

Gay-relationship is very interesting and colorful relationship in this world. It has different genre like what we see in the movies and like we read at the pocketbooks.... It is really great because it has drama and comedy, the villain and the antagonist, the side-kick and the protagonist... The theme, the plot, the climax but not concluded ending... and these things help to make such relationship a world-class masterpiece.

Sometimes, relationship is full of happiness and most often full of mystery. Because you dont know what is the key to solve the mystery and how it is happening... It is quite amazing if such relationship survive because you know that both of them are working out to survive. Its nice, right?! .. It is right when you work and you see the product of ur hardship... its quite fulfilling!!!

Last night, when i visit my Transgender friend in her performance at the bay, I never realized that his boyfriend was there to once again support him and its really cool to remember how they met... well of course i will not going to mention how they met... its a complicated thing hehehe ... Anyway, I miss this friend of mine and i consider her as my bestfriend... She's so nice and she's so fantastic... I went there late in the evening and because of that, i missed most of the performance and laughthers... She's a stand-up comedianne, you know... Anyway, this is not her story but a story of her co-performer... hehehe

While sitting on the table with Nanay Chuchai (Code) and my bestfriend's boyfriend, we talk different things and one of those is the Pinoy Dream Academy which is very interesting to discuss. Of course, I need to avoid the entire topic of my bestfriend & boyfriend because for sure they will not gonna spit it out... hehehe... Anyway, I enjoy laughing with Nanay Chuchai and its really good to remember the past when i saw her drunk...

well.... let me begin...

In the middle of our conversation a guy interrupt us because Nanay Chuchai made a homily to this guy and after that short homily, Nanay Chuchai introduce him to me but as you expected, I forgot his name... Anyway, here where the story goes, This guy has a normal relationship--relationship with straight female, and if im not mistaken He is also committed to this normal relationship. Without knowing he is also attached with Shine (code) who is also a transgender...

Well as i heard the homily and the story of this guy even in a short period of time... I realize that eventhough it is painful for them(trans) to be hurt by someone straight, still they are there to be part of that growing relationship... or false relationship?! Who knows, only the people involved in that relationship can answer and solve it.

Why did i say that?! Well, This guy wait for how many hours to Shine because he did something to her that makes her sad and hurt...This guy told to Nanay Chuchai that he loves Shine but as the homily is concern, he knows that he did something that make Shine cry and anger... Thou the guy statement sounds genuine because he even told nanay chuchai that he dont love his present wife and thats one reason why he's trying to make-up with her. Because of this, he waited for long time and stay there and go home together... Of course, it sounds very sweet but then, try to realize it, a man will never stay and wait if he dont have some problem with Shine, right?!

Of course, it is hard to be a gay querida and its funny when u say that word, but sometimes it is a fact and it is real that these people are looking for someone to love without knowing that the person they choose to love have another commitment... Thou i dont want to hurt this people but the reality is that, it is very minimal to a transgender-relationship to find the real relationship, the real happiness... of course being gay is another thing... it is another thing because it cost effort, trials and experiences to find the best relationship.

Im very much happy for them because they enjoy even it is complicated but it is really hurtful when u see them crying and you have nothing to advice becoz its not your thing.. you know!?. That is their way to define love and from that love, they know that they are satisfied and well. They know that even the whole world is against them, still they found the best in it...Another thing, I find it very amazing because I saw the happiness to that guy when he call Shine "bhe" and it means that they are really into each other... sweet huh?! Even me, I would like someone to call me hunny or Baby and its really sweet to hear... heheheh>>>

anyway...

While both performers are doing their job to make money and make the crowd laughs.. Still there are two guys waiting for them... Two guys that accepted that they are in the world of true love, true acceptance and real transgender relationship... is it? who knows?!

Im very much happy with these people because one thing for sure, They are happy, well-accepted and inloved and from that, i know that no matter what happen, still it is the best for them to continue it and be part of that relationship... Of course there's no such perfect relationship, because it needs effort, time and commitment to build and develop it. No one in this world can answer your own problem if you dont seek on it, and if u dont find the solution of it...

conti....

A 15-minutes blog of a gayguy date...

Date is a very interesting hobby of a lonely person ... It is the answer of the of the question, Am i being alone forever?! Is he my mr. right?! or Is this the way to my long-time commitment?! What if this date is such a failure and not even gonna pass to your standard?! What will gonna happen?! What if your date rejected you instead you rejected him?! Hmmmm... Very realistic questions, right?!

Well it is really good to meet stranger that you will meet for the 1st time and after that it will bring you both to a very good friendshipr or much deeper--gayguy relationship.That is a very interesting conclusion of a great and soulmate-date, right?! Because you know that you both understand what everything is all about. It is also good to spend time with him and think that u're both child who enjoy the company of no-doubt, enjoyment and continous happiness because this is makes u both feel great!!!!

All i can say is that... when u meet someone stranger and this is a good example of EB or SEB it should be better if you meet and talk and get to know more because thats the best start of a very healthy relationship... Reality bites! it is great that you never say you like him on the first date or even on the first time you will meet or have sex with, because thats not real.. its just like you are in the middle of fantasy... it is not real... HEllo!!!! You both should enjoy the moment of talking and maybe you can do that both on the 2nd meeting, on the 2nd time when both of you are comfortable to each other...

It is also safe for both of you that way because I'm sure u r both innocent to each other's background... What im trying to say is that ... At least you dont know his background and vise versa and as the time goes by... It will develop and will form a best ever relaitonship... Many people said that friendship is the gateway of a true relationship but then it is up to you how u will go to the next level... it is ur way how it will evolve and develop and it is your way if both of you will be happy not for shorter but a longer relationship. Times up!